Taking Life too Seriously

      I think marriage is a joke. If we need a ring and a set of vows to validate our relationships then I think were misunderstanding the point of the relationship. Why cant people just spend the time they have together happily without signing there life away to another person? For the most part, I think guys only agree to get married to get the girl to quit talking about it. But after the wedding and the honeymoon, then what? You spend the next 10 years paying off your credit card bills you racked up to buy that wedding ring and wedding dress, that dress she just had to have because she was to insecure to have a relationship without a ceremony?  The bible says no one should engage in premarital sex, but if your holding out for sex till your married then I think your being a little extreme.  Is it a big deal to have sex without marriage? Maybe. It is a sin? Maybe. But the bible also says that any man with one testicle should not enter a church.... So does that mean Tom Green is going to hell?